Time to take action - take the challenge
Sometimes, a challenge is needed to give us a bit of a competitive push in the right direction. Of course, this is a challenge with yourself, so there isn't really any competition. It's meant to be a challenge to yourself, to drive you forward along your path. Only you will know if you fail for the night or not. How that affects you depends on your level of self respect. I know that when I challenge myself to something, I take it very seriously and will apply everything in my power to succeed. I know that if I gave it my all, then that provides with great satisfaction, even if I don't succeed for the evening. But if I failed because I didn't take it seriously enough, or even worse, I succumbed to fear, then I take that very seriously and go back to visualize myself correcting that problem. And then I follow that up by getting right back out there to give it everything I have, until I achieve success!
This is the kind of attitude that you need to take towards this challenge, and in fact to the entire program in general. It's up to you to make it happen, don't let anything get in your way.
The Challenge
Here is the challenge. You are going to achieve the next milestone on your list. It must be a milestone you haven't achieved since you started the program. Assign a challenge to yourself to accomplish that milestone in one evening. Before you go out on your adventure to accomplish that milestone, spend some time building your strength and confidence. Visualize yourself accomplishing the milestone, and really feel the emotions of what it will be like once you've accomplished it. When the time comes, walk out into the world and accomplish the milestone, let no doubts or fears get in your way. You have too much invested in this, not to succeed. Remind yourself that for every time that a woman turns you down, you are going to smile, compliment her and move on to the next girl.
Example
A good example would be to take the mandatory milestone 'Approach a woman and strike up a conversation'. I would suggest that you plan on going somewhere public for the evening, where there are sure to be some women. Dedicate the entire evening to accomplishing that milestone. If the first woman would rather not chat with you, that's fine. Move onto another woman, until you succeed. If things work out, maybe you could go right to another milestone and ask her for her phone number. You don't have any idea how far it could go, and you won't know, until you try it. Think of the challenge as an adventure, like you have nothing to lose. Which of course is completely true. What do you have to lose?
Let fear and doubt be cast aside. Fill yourself with confidence and get out there! You'll find this challenge is a great way to get you moving along your path. Once you succeed at accomplishing your first challenge, assign yourself another, and keep the momentum going.
Concluding remarks
You have everything you need to be confidenct with women. If you've rushed through this program, you really need to do the taks, and do them well if you are truly committed to make lasting change a reality in your life. Don't sell yourself short, support your true decision by taking action and never, ever giving up until you've achieved your goal.
I've also included some appendices with some ideas for where to meet women, how to best take advantage of social situations, some pick-up lines to try out, and also some advice about sex.
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I genuinely and truly wish you all the best that life has to offer.
Thankyou sincerly for making my program a success!
Your coach,
David
