Steps along the Path
OK, so you've determined your ultimate goal. Now it's time to create the milestones that will lead you to that goal. Think of each milestone as a step along your new path, and with each milestone accomplished, you move closer to your goal, and a step away from your old habits and behaviours.
Milestones can be used to measure your progress on your new journey, but they are also a driving force, building your momentum and confidence along the way. Milestones provide you with proof that you are indeed changing for the better, creating a powerful snowball effect for change. Soon, there will be no turning back because your new path will feel like you had walked upon it a hundred times before.
Milestone Brainstorming
It's time for a brainstorm session, so get ready to have some fun. You are going to write down some ideas for milestones that you would like to achieve. In fact, milestones can be just as inspiring as your ultimate goal. Just think of the joy that you will experience when you accomplish the 'kiss a girl' milestone or 'make love to a woman' milestone. This is going to be fun.
Get Prepared
Grab your pen or pencil, it's time to get started. You may want to grab your scissors as well, because you'll be needing them to finish this task.
I want you to be alone and undisturbed, set aside at least 30 minutes to focus all of your thoughts and energy on creating your milestones. I will provide you with a list of ideas that you can use to get started. Some of the provided milestones are mandatory to the program, while others are merely suggestions. If you like these suggested ideas, add them onto your brainstorm paper. These mandatory and suggested ideas are meant to get the flow going, but it's important that you think up some of your own ideas about what you would like to accomplish. The program works much better if your milestones are personal and excite you.
I've written my suggested ideas in some semblance of progressive order, but don't be concerned about the order that you write your milestone ideas down. We'll sort through them later.
We also want these ideas to range in difficulty. I don't want you to list 50 different ways that you are going to approach a woman, and no milestone ideas about having an intimate relationship or sexual encounter. Your milestone ideas must range from approaching a woman, to going on a date, to having sexual encounters, to being in a relationship. It's important that we have the full range of possibilities, basically each step along the path towards achieving your ultimate goal.
We also want lots of ideas, lots of milestones, no matter how small or outrageous. In fact, the more milestones that you have, the more baby steps you will be able to take towards realizing your ultimate goal. So in a way, the more milestones that you come up with, the easier your progress will be.
Don't be afraid to get specific and don't censor anything. Remember to not let doubt stop you from writing down any ideas. We will concern ourselves with how to accomplish the milestones later. Also, keep in mind, that just because you wrote an idea down, doesn't mean that it must be one of your milestones. Just write them down! In fact, I'll tell you now that we aren't going to use EVERY one of these ideas, so don't do any censoring as you brainstorm. We'll edit the list and censor later.
Task - Brainstorm as many milestone ideas as possible
Ok, now sit and write down your ideas for 30 minutes or more. Write your milestone ideas in whatever pattern you want, but leave enough room between the ideas so that they are legible and clear, in fact, later you are going to cut them out, so leave enough room around each of them to be able to do that. Since you are going to be cutting them into pieces, I would suggest that you don't use your journal for this exercise, unless you want to cut some pieces out. FEAR NO IDEA, just write it down. You'll need more than a few pages for the brainstorming session, so make sure that you have enough room.
Start now and only when you have tons, and I mean TONS of ideas are you to continue. We want at least 50, but try for 100!
On your paper, write down these Mandatory Milestones:
- Make eye contact with a woman that you don't know, and smile at her.
- Have a woman that you don't know, smile back at you.
- Compliment a woman.
- Approach a woman and strike up a conversation.
- Ask a woman for her phone number.
- Ask a woman to go on a date.
- Experience a great date.
- Kiss a woman.
- Make love to a woman.
Here are some suggested Milestones, if you like an idea in this list then feel free to add it to your list, or not, its your personal list.
- Gently touch a woman on the shoulder during a conversation.
- Dance with a woman.
- Dance with a woman, and kiss her
- Go to the movies with a woman.
- Share a stroll in a park with a woman.
- Hold hands while walking with a woman.
- Cook dinner for a woman.
- Take a moonlit walk along the beach.
- Gently put your hand on the small of a womans' back during a date.
- Kiss a woman in the rain.
- Watch a woman privately undress in front of you.
- Have great animal-like sex with a woman.
- Join the mile high club.
- Date more than one woman in a month, or a week, or a day!
- Enter an exclusive relationship with a woman.
- Go on a weekend getaway with a woman.
- Go sky diving with a woman.
Now add as many personal milestone ideas as you can. Just write them down! No editing, no doubts!
Don't continue reading on until you have finished! Plan to spend at least 30 minutes doing this! Get to work now.
When you are done you should have lots of ideas for milestones, and I mean lots. If you haven't filled your paper with ideas, go back and spend more time coming up with ideas.
Ok, when you are done, I want you to count how many you wrote in your journal. You can count the mandatory and suggested ideas in your total.
If you don't have at least 50, then perhaps you need some more suggestions to provide further inspiration. Try these suggestions on for size, and then try to come up with some more of your own until you have at LEAST 50.
- Take a dancing lesson with a woman.
- Kiss a woman passionately in a public place.
- Dance with 3 different women in 1 night.
- Stare into a womans' eyes and tell her she is beautiful.
- Go for a bike ride with a woman.
- Be involved in a conversation with 3 women at a time.
- Show a woman where you grew up
- Meet a woman at the local swimming pool.
- Take your time and just let your imagination run free.
When you have 50 milestones minimum, click here for the next task
