Where to Meet Women
We all know that women are everywhere. Yet, many people say that it's difficult to find and meet women. The thing is, everywhere is a good place to meet women. You just never know when, where or how you are going to meet the woman of your dreams. It could happen as you cross the street, it could happen as you are buying your groceries, you just never know. And that is the true beauty of meeting women, you just never know when that special person is going to come along. But, instead of taking a passive role and waiting for a woman to come knocking on your door, I have some ideas on how to meet women that are sure to get your "flow" going.
At a Party
If you are invited to a party, take the opportunity. While at the party, be social and approach women in a friendly manner. Avoid coming across like you are just trying to hunt down every women you see, instead just take the attitude that you want to meet and get to know some new people. If you are feeling stuck for ideas on how to strike up a conversation, try this. Introduce yourself, and ask her how she knows the host or hostess of the party. Then ask her if she has any good stories about the host that she'd like to share. Then share a story of your own. That is just one of many openings.
Online
There is literally a world of opportunity for meeting women online. Most dating sites online are similar in that you write a personal ad, and make connections with local women. At the time of this writing, a search for dating on Google brings up 230,000,000 pages.
Free Dating Service
With so many dating sites, it can be a little difficult to choose the right one. I recomend checking out Free Dating Service. You'll find the best dating services and singles sites, with reviews written by the people that have used the site. You'll also find helpful info related to writting an effective personal ad, and plenty of dating articles. Get out there, check out Free Dating Service, write your personal ad, and start mingling online!
Grocery Store
An easy approach at the grocery store is to try testing some produce for freshness. Everyone has a particular way of testing to see if fruit is fresh or not. Pretend, that you are unsure and ask her what method she uses to determine the freshness of fruit. Lead it into a conversation, by saying, 'Thats an interesting method, I never heard that one before, isn't it interesting how everyone has different ways of checking for freshness'. Try to naturally continue the conversation. Later when you spot her in a different aisle, mention the sale that you noticed in the other aisle. Then own up and admit that it wasn't really that great of a sale, it's just you found her interesting and wanted to talk with you a little more. "Would you mind, maybe we could stop for some coffee after we are done shopping?" Just like that, you've managed to compliment her, told her you are interested in her opinion (fresh fruit), told her that you are interested in her, and would like to get to know her better. It's a great way to meet women, just be sure that she isn't wearing a wedding ring...
Enroll in a Class
Enroll in a class, where there are sure to be women. A good example is pottery or something hands-on. In these types of classes, it's easy to socialize, and it's also an excellent opportunity for complimenting her on her class work. If there isn't anyone interesting in the class, then you can always invite someone that you just met. You can use the class as a conversation piece when you meet a new woman and ask her if she is interested in joining the class. (Just be sure that the instructor is OK with this ahead of time).
Some other class ideas:
- Cooking
- Foreign Language
- Music
- Creative Writing
Volunteer
This is a great way to meet women, and also do some good. It's a great opportunity to allow your great personality to shine through for the other female volunteers. By donating your time and energy, they will be able to see first hand, the type of person you are. If you are new to volunteering, then ask her if she could show you the ropes. Ask her how long that she has been volunteering, and if she volunteers anywhere else. Maybe you could suggest that you pool your resources and work together as a team.
School Reunions
There are many services on the internet for contacting your old class mates. Just do a search for "classmates", and you are sure to find a good site. Many of these sites allow you to send e-mail to your old class mates, which is perfect opportunity to try to get in touch with someone from the past. You can start up a conversation with someone, asking them what they have been doing since school. If it's time for your school reunion, it may be a great opportunity for you to re-meet someone in person, that you knew long ago.
Religious Functions
If you are religious, then check out the social programs your church, or organization, offers. Perhaps there is an opportunity to meet someone there that has similar beliefs and values, which of course allows for easy conversations.
Ask for Help
Tell your family and friends that you are interested in meeting some women, tell them the type of person that you are looking for. Maybe your sister could introduce you to one of her friends. And there is always that Aunt that wants to play match maker. You just never know, she might introduce you to the woman of your dreams, and if she doesn't then maybe you can at least meet a friend that might know someone that is more suited for you.
