My Goal is to find the love of my life, get married and have kids
This can the most dangerous goal of all! I am not a believer in having a goal to get married and have children. I believe that marriage should be something that is set to be a goal once you have been in a healthy, caring, long-term relationship with someone. The rate of divorce is staggering, and the damage that it can do to a child is heart breaking.
Ask yourself, why it is that you want to get married and have children? Is it for the sake of others? Is it for reasons other than being in a loving relationship? If it is, then I suggest that you seriously reconsider and choose to set your goal to having a healthy, caring, long-term relationship. Once you have accomplished that, then it's time to set your sights on marriage. If you are just desperate to have kids, then you must really love children, and that is great, but just think of what would happen to them if you rushed into a marriage to accomplish your goal, and then it turns bad. I'd suggest that instead you enroll to be a big brother, or volunteer to help kids. That will serve to fulfill your need while you work towards a healthy, caring relationship. Who knows, maybe volunteering will lead you to the woman of your dreams! I highly recommend that you reconsider.
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If you want to ignore my advice and are absolutely sure that you want to set your goal to get married and have children, then it's time to create a visualization of yourself getting married and being in a happy, caring marriage, and having kids.
Write the title of this goal 'My Goal is to find the love of my life, get married and have kids' on a fresh page in your journal. Visualize yourself being married and having children, really feel like family life is a regular part of your life. Write down the details of this visualization in your journal and add it into your day dreaming routine.
The next chapter is dedicated to determining the many milestones along the path to your ultimate goal. It can be quite a joy and relief to know exactly what your goal is, so revel in it. Take a break and go have some fun.
